Flirty questions to ask on a first date
Flirting is mostly attention paid well. These give you something better to say than “you look nice” — playful, a little forward, and easy to laugh off if the timing turns out to be wrong.
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47 flirty questions to ask on a first date
Playful questions when sparks are flying. Showing 28 of 47.
- What's your idea of a perfect night in with someone you like?
- What's something that someone can do that instantly makes you more attracted to them?
- What's the most romantic thing you've ever done — or had done for you?
- What's something about you that most people find surprising in a good way?
- When's the last time someone made you genuinely nervous?
- What's a song that puts you in a mood?
- How do you know when you're really into someone?
- What's the first thing you noticed about me?
- What kind of energy do you think I give off?
- What's something you've wanted to say to me but haven't?
- Where would you take me if you wanted to impress me?
- What's a small thing that makes you feel really wanted?
- How do you like to be kissed?
- What would you do if we had the whole night with no plans?
- What's something that instantly makes you feel connected to someone?
- What's a fantasy you've never told anyone?
- How do you show someone you're interested without saying it?
- What's a place you've always wanted to bring someone?
- What makes you feel sexy?
- What's something you want me to know about you?
- What's the first thing you noticed about me tonight?
- What kind of energy do you think I give off?
- What's something you've wanted to say to me tonight but haven't yet?
- Where would you take me if you wanted to really impress me?
- What's a small thing that makes you feel really wanted?
- How do you show someone you're interested without saying it out loud?
- What makes you feel sexy?
- What's a song that instantly puts you in the mood?
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