Deep questions to ask your partner
You already know how their day went. These go underneath that — fear, regret, what they want the next ten years to actually look like. Best asked late, phones face down, with nowhere else to be.
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30 deep questions to ask your partner
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- What three hours of your life would you relive exactly as they happened?
- What's the first thing you'd look for in a box of everything you've ever lost?
- What would you do right now if you knew it couldn't hurt you physically?
- What year of your life would you live in forever if you had to pick?
- What one thing about your future would you lock in if you could guarantee it?
- What conversation about you would you want to secretly overhear?
- What decision would you unmake if you could go back?
- What would your younger self be most surprised by about your life now?
- What chapter title would you give this current period of your life?
- When's the last time you felt completely like yourself?
- What's something you're afraid to want because you might not get it?
- Who shaped who you are more than they probably realize?
- What door did you close that you still peek through sometimes?
- Where do you go in your head when you need to feel safe?
- What would you do differently if you knew this was your last ordinary week?
- How different is the version of you people meet from the version you actually are?
- What part of your life right now would be hardest to explain to your 15-year-old self?
- What have you been holding onto that you know you need to let go of?
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